Savvy Psychologist

7 reasons why you like being scared

Episode Summary

Anyone who knows anything about me knows that I love horror movies, and the Quick and Dirty Tips team has been asking me for years to discuss some of the possible psychological reasons why so many of us enjoy being scared.

Episode Notes

It’s a Friday the 13th in October, which means it’s the perfect time to explore the psychological reasons why people like horror movies and haunted houses!

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Episode Transcription

Today is Friday the 13th and it’s October so we are truly doubling down on the spooky season. Anyone who knows anything about me knows that I love horror movies, and the Quick and Dirty Tips team has been asking me for years to discuss some of the possible psychological reasons why so many of us enjoy being scared. Well, today’s the day!

Welcome back to Savvy Psychologist. I'm your host, Dr. Monica Johnson. Every week on this show, I'll help you face life's challenges with evidence-based approaches, a sympathetic ear, and zero judgment.

The thrill of fear and the enjoyment of being scared may seem counterintuitive at first glance, but it is a phenomenon deeply rooted in human psychology. This paradoxical attraction to fear has been a subject of interest for psychologists and researchers for decades. While there is no single definitive answer, various theories and studies provide insights into why we enjoy being scared. So today, we will explore the psychological reasons behind our fascination with fear and how it manifests in different forms of entertainment and experiences.

The evolutionary perspective

One way to understand our penchant for fear is to examine it from an evolutionary perspective. Our ancestors faced numerous threats and dangers in their environment. The ability to detect and respond to potential threats was essential for survival. When confronted with fear-inducing situations, our bodies trigger a "fight or flight" response, releasing adrenaline and other stress hormones. These physiological responses helped our ancestors react quickly to potential dangers.

In modern times, where most of our daily lives are relatively safe, we may still carry this evolutionary predisposition for heightened alertness and arousal when faced with fear-inducing stimuli. Engaging with controlled, simulated fear in the form of horror movies or haunted houses may satisfy this evolutionary need to some extent.

Fun fact, I have never actually screamed at a haunted house and one of the reasons I enjoy going is to be around people who freak out. That usually provides me with more amusement than the haunted house itself. If you run into me at a haunted house this season, just know I am in line looking for the people who I know are going to have an amplified fright. 

The arousal theory

The arousal theory posits that people seek out fear-inducing experiences because they provide a unique form of stimulation. When we experience fear, our bodies release adrenaline, which can lead to an increased heart rate, heightened senses, and a sense of alertness. These physiological responses can be pleasurable in moderation, akin to the adrenaline rush one might get from an exciting rollercoaster ride.

In this particular example, it’s important to note that so much of your subjective emotional experience is based on your interpretation of the sensations that are happening in your body. Both excitement and anxiety create similar responses in your body, and how you interpret changes whether it’s the enjoyment of excitement or the terror of anxiety. This can be as simple as the thought “This is going to be fun” vs. “OMG, I’m going to die.” 

Research has shown that individuals who enjoy thrilling activities like bungee jumping, skydiving, or horror movies may do so because they seek this heightened state of arousal. These experiences allow them to push the boundaries of their comfort zones and experience a rush that is difficult to find elsewhere.

Sense of control

Another psychological aspect of enjoying fear is the sense of control that often accompanies it. In many fear-inducing situations, such as watching a horror movie or visiting a haunted house, individuals know that they are in a controlled environment where the threats are not real. This knowledge provides a sense of security and control, allowing individuals to engage with fear without genuine peril. This is one of the reasons why I have very little real fear in haunted houses and the actors may dislike me because I really give them nothing, I am completely stone-faced the entire time outside of the smirks of watching the people who are really getting into it. On a serious note, my ability to remain calm in chaotic or fear-inducing situations has helped me in my work as a psychologist. 

This element of control is essential because it allows people to face their fears in a safe and manageable way. It provides an opportunity to explore and confront emotions and sensations associated with fear while knowing that they can exit the situation if it becomes too overwhelming. This controlled exposure to fear can even have therapeutic benefits, helping individuals overcome phobias or anxieties.

Emotional catharsis

Psychologists have also explored the concept of emotional catharsis in understanding why we enjoy being scared. According to this idea, experiencing fear and anxiety in a controlled environment can serve as a release for pent-up emotions and stress. When we watch a horror movie or engage in a fear-inducing activity, it allows us to experience a wide range of emotions, including fear, tension, and excitement.

As these emotions build and reach their peak, they can lead to a sense of catharsis or emotional release when the source of fear is resolved or removed. This release of built-up tension can be psychologically satisfying, leaving individuals feeling refreshed and less stressed after the experience. And the main reason why I enjoy observing the people around me at haunted houses is because at the end it transitions from screams to giggles and everyone is totally jazzed. It goes to show that if we approach scary things, we can get joyful outcomes. 

Social bonding aspect

Fear-inducing experiences are often shared with others, whether it's watching a horror movie with friends, attending a haunted house attraction as a group, or participating in team-building activities that involve fear elements. These shared experiences create opportunities for social bonding and connection. 

When people engage in fear-inducing activities with others, it can strengthen social bonds and create a sense of camaraderie. The shared experience of fear can lead to conversations, laughter, and a sense of unity among participants. This social aspect enhances the overall enjoyment of the experience and reinforces the idea that fear can be a source of pleasure and connection.

Novelty and surprise factor

Human beings are naturally drawn to novelty and surprise. Fear-inducing experiences often incorporate elements of the unexpected and the unknown. When we are surprised or caught off guard, it can trigger a heightened emotional response, including fear. This element of surprise adds an exciting and unpredictable dimension to fear-inducing activities.

For example, jump scares in horror movies work by exploiting our natural instinct to react when suddenly confronted with something unexpected. The anticipation of these surprises and the adrenaline rush they produce can be thrilling and enjoyable for many.

Exploration of dark themes

Lastly, our fascination with fear may also be linked to our curiosity about dark and taboo themes. Fear-inducing experiences often explore themes of death, the supernatural, and the unknown, which have been subjects of human curiosity and fascination throughout history.

Engaging with these dark themes allows us to confront our deepest fears and explore the boundaries of human existence. It can be intellectually stimulating to grapple with questions about mortality, the afterlife, and the mysteries of the universe, even if they are presented in a fictional or exaggerated context. I find horror movies to have a broad range from silly to intensely thought-provoking. I have for as long as I can remember been a horror movie geek and exploring and approaching the themes of these films has helped me to expand my window of tolerance and led to incredibly interesting dialogues with the people who I shared these experiences with.

I would be remiss if I didn’t mention a few of my all-time favorites for your spooky season which include The Witches, the original Dawn of the Dead, Silence of the Lambs, and A Tale of Two Sisters

What is one of your favorite horror films? Let me know on Instagram @kindmindpsych. You can also reach out to me via my email at psychologist@quickanddirtytips.com, or leave a voicemail at (929) 256-2191‬.